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Dave & Buster’s
7025 Salisbury Rd
Jacksonville, FL 32256
Sunday-Thursday: 11am- midnight
Friday-Saturday: 11am-1am
When a friend stopped by in Jacksonville, we discovered “Dave & Buster’s”, a restaurant chain / sport bar / arcade.
I’m not a big video games fan, but it’s nice to play occasionally, and the place was quite impressive.
With the meal we chose, we got a card with some credit for the games.
The meal was good… (the cocktail too)
And we had quite some fun trying a few games, and even more with a giant Photo Booth at the end, telling us which poses to take – but I spare you the pics.
So last week was unfortunately not filled with cool stuff in the evenings, but more practical or necessary stuff. For example, filling my taxes lol.
As a first timer everyone was suggesting I should go somewhere have someone do it for/with me, but I ain’t paying $100 for that! F*** that, I can figure it out myself. And I could, I already had made my research before about how to fill regarding to my marriage and what was allowed and all. I knew all the money I spend on him is considered gifts and I can’t claim him or that money, so basically I knew I was filling married jointly, and there was only my W2 to put in. Well I figured out through a friend (she got a k1 visa to marry her “prison boyfriend” and now is married and live in the USA) that I also had to declare the money I earned in France. But still, my situation was quite simple, no children, no mortgages.
Anyway, I filled on one website (the one my friend used for free) and they wanted me to pay $25 at the end when I qualified for a free filling too (again, we are in the exact same situation, she worked a bit in France then here). It made no sense so I tried somewhere else and the refund was completely different (and much smaller). I don’t even know if they wanted me to pay, I was afraid to actually send it out if I was going further and it was free. So I just went to Turbo Tax like everyone seems to do, it gave me the same refund as the first site and it didn’t ask me for any money, so yeah! I got an email saying it was accepted by IRS so I think I’m officially done with this new milestone in my American life lol. If I get the refund, it will help a little bit to save faster for a car.
Because I’m still working on that. Coming to Jacksonville, I never thought I would be here 6 months without a car!
Last time I went to the bank to ask about it, the lady was almost ready to give me a loan right now, because my savings were good (considering the little few months I’ve been here but the amount is not awesome lol) and my pay stubs are good and so on but then she asked if I had a 2-year or a 10-year green card and since I only have 2 years, 2 years is the maximum time I would have to pay my loan (actually not even 2 years since I’ve been here 6 months now), so the monthly payments would be horrendous. So my options now are pretty much, save until I can buy a car cash (loooong time since I need a safe average car -with a couple of options I can’t live without lol- that’ll last until I’m perfectly settled here and that I can count on to go to and from work everyday + the weekly drive to the prison, even if he is eventually moved 3 hours away from me), or try to get a loan directly from the dealership, which everyone tells me shouldn’t be too hard since they only want to sell (and in the worst case, if I don’t pay, they get the car back) and only look at your ID and credit score.
BUT it leads me to the credit score issue, since I am trying to build one. It seems really slow to update so it looks like it might take a couple of months from today to look good (I have been added as an authorized user on my in-laws card and they have excellent credit so hopefully that’ll help). I am hoping at the end of March I’ll have money for a very good down-payment and that the credit score will look good so I can get an okay deal and buy a car sometime in April. It sounds very far away from here still, but it’s coming I guess…
I’ll make a post to try to explain the credit score system because it’s completely unheard of in France.
May 2018 be bright and full of beautiful moments for all of you.
We send our love to those of you who went through difficult times last year and we hope 2018 will be healing and bring you unsuspected joys.
In a year full of ups and downs, I’d say the ups outweigh the downs… I’m as close as can be to my best friend and the love of my life! Uncertainty looms over the end of 2018 with my resentencing on schedule to be resolved before 2019. Our hearts are set on victory – of any proportion – but if not, having the best teammate brings sweetness even in failure! 2017 was a good – long! – year, in large part thanks to our family and friends who support and encourage us… it’s heartwarming to think of all the inspirations and selfless gestures we received throughout 2017. Thanks to everyone for the kindness and encouragement! We wish you a wonderful 2018!