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Categories: Living in the USA

Social Security Number

Here the social security number reminds me of the Danish CPR (national identity number), it is necessary for everything, in particular, as seen in my previous post, to open a bank account, to obtain a driving license or receiving one’s salary… and later on, to pay taxes.

If you are targeting the same visa as me, the process of obtaining the SSN (Social Security Number) is greatly simplified, you just have to check the box that asks if you want to get one at the online step (DS-260) of the NVC stage and you’ll receive your card directly at your US home!

If you arrive with a work visa and that same option is not available, you’ll have to go to a social security office, about 10 days after your arrival, with your passport and your work permit. 10 days is about the time it takes for them to record your arrival / admission on the American soil.

10 days is also the average time it takes to receive your social security card at home. It arrived in less than a week in my case.
Unfortunately it was of course at my maiden name, and I had to go to an office to ask for a new card. Very simple too, just fill in the appropriate form, and bring your passport with visa and your marriage certificate.
I was given proof of my application and received my new card at home in less than a week!

Categories: Living in the USA

US bank account

This will be a very short post just to continue with the inevitable formalities upon arrival in a new country.

The opening of a bank account was not really complicated for me, despite my “name problems”. I went to my in-laws bank because they are happy with it, they told me that many transactions were free while most other banks take a fee, and it is a credit union, indicating low interest rates if I am later interested in a loan.

All that was needed for the opening of a checking account and a savings account (the opening of the second was automatic with the first) was:

  • valid identification (passport)
  • visa or green card
  • social security number
  • proof of residence (in my case I used the immigration paper I mentioned in my post about the P.O. Box, and my stepfather vouched for me as he already is a member).
  • a minimum deposit of $ 5 + $ 5 fee (to be seen depending on the bank)

I went there for information before and I had to wait for my social security number, which only took a week in my case but may take longer, so you should still plan a way to withdraw money and/or pay less fees in the meantime.

I was also asked who should benefit my money if something happened to me, and I wanted to put Alan but hard to know how he could access it. They said that in the case of the spouse, they send a letter to my address and that if he is there he only has to deal with it … but it is impossible to predict when I will die and if Alan has a chance to live with me at this time (which, in addition, remains rather unlikely). So to simplify things I put my mother-in-law, because I know she will give him the money, but I still have to research more on the subject.

Small difference with France, you are asked to choose the pin code of your debit card and you leave with it right away!

Until now, things seem much simpler here 🙂

 

Categories: This American Life

Baseball Game

A week after my arrival I had the opportunity to go see a baseball game. I am neither a great sportsman (alas) nor even very interested, but since it is not something that I would do by myself, it was an opportunity to seize.


You can already see that we had rather good places (and as a bonus before the game we had access to a “all you can eat” buffet, and then, the atmosphere is frankly nice! It would almost make you want to to return, in fact I am not against it at all!

The view of the stadium being filled from the top of the bleachers
(from the buffet ^^)

On the other hand there is almost more action in the public than on the field, baseball is a bit “soft” in a way… They may be pro but they do not often touch the ball lol, there is the most suspense when the ball goes out in the public or lands on the roofs and/or in the nets and everyone follows it to see where it falls.
But the atmosphere is maintained, there are announcements, small games, and even tributes (to the military or nurses present for example) at each break. I had a very good evening and maybe next time I will see a football game, although I’m a little afraid that the atmosphere will be a little less relaxed ^^


 It’s not good quality (especially when I was testing Snapchat oops), but it’s to show you the atmosphere a little bit.

Categories: Immigration

P.O. Box

Une de mes priorités en arrivant aux USA était de prendre une P.O. Box pour pouvoir continuer à correspondre avec mes pen pals. Etant donnés que tous mes pen pals sont américains et la plupart en prison pour de longues peines, je n’ai jamais eu d’inquiétudes à donner mon adresse. En revanche, ce n’est pas un risque/une responsabilité que je prendrais alors que je suis hébergée.

C’est une étape assez simple mais elle peut être un peu plus compliquée quand on est étranger.

Si vous êtes déjà aux USA depuis un moment et que vous avez ouvert un compte en banque, vous pouvez presque tout faire en ligne. Il faut vous créer un compte USPS et aller sur https://www.usps.com/poboxes/
Une fois que vous avez rentré votre code postal, on vous montre tous les bureaux de poste qui ont des boites disponibles et leurs tailles. Il existe 5 tailles différentes mais la plus petite est largement suffisante car si vous avez quelque chose de plus gros qui arrive, on vous laissera un avis de livraison dedans et on gardera votre paquet au bureau 🙂
Pour réserver ensuite, il suffit de suivre les indications pas à pas, et il ne vous restera plus qu’à vous présenter au bureau de poste avec le formulaire téléchargé en chemin et vos pièces d’identité pour récupérer vos clés.

Si, comme moi, vous ne pouvez pas réserver votre boite en ligne car vous n’avez pas de carte de paiement américaine (ils ne prennent rien d’autres), il faut vous présenter directement au bureau de poste (vous pouvez toujours vérifier en ligne les disponibilités avant, pratique ^^). Petit détail qui peut avoir de l’importance, en ligne vous avez l’option de ne payer votre boite que pour 3 mois, mais au bureau le seul choix que j’avais était 6 mois ou un an. J’ai payé $45 pour 6 mois.
Vous pouvez ensuite lier votre box à votre compte USPS en ligne pour pouvoir la gérer (renouvellement etc.) depuis le net une fois que vous avez une carte US.

Là où ça peut coincer, c’est au niveau des pièces d’identité et de la preuve de domicile. Je me doute que pour beaucoup d’entre vous qui immigrent aux USA, la preuve de domicile n’est pas un problème, à moins que vous soyez, comme moi, hébergé (et je pense que pas mal de gens avec un visa CR-1 sont dans mon cas, même si ils s’installent avec leur époux !). Difficile d’avoir une preuve de domicile quand on a aucune facture à son nom (même la facture de mon téléphone n’est pas à mon nom car ma ligne fait partie d’un family plan).
J’ai présenté mon passeport et mon permis de conduire français, et pour l’adresse, tout ce que j’avais était la copie de mon “immigrant data summary”, mais ça a été suffisant.

L’immigrant data summary est le papier qui arrive agrafé à votre immigrant package quand vous recevez votre visa. Vous n’êtes pas censé en garder une copie, mais j’ai pensé à cette histoire d’adresse et je me suis dit que ce serait sans doute malin d’en faire une ! De plus, il répertorie tous les numéros de dossier, votre domaine d’emploi (le mien dit “teachers, postsecondary” grâce à mon ex-job à la prison donc j’étais contente de ça aussi lol) et tous les noms qu’ils vous connaissent (nom de jeune fille, de femme mariée, et autres alias), en plus il y a aussi la photo qui apparait sur le visa. Bref, j’ai été bien inspirée, car ça m’a servi à d’autres occasions également.

Categories: Cards

You are out of this world

Made this card for my special person 🌎

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